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First
educate yourself, then your child.
Banning a child from certain sites may only
motivate them to spend more time on them,
whereas educating that child on how to keep safe
will give them the tools they need to navigate
their online world without being hurt; from not
posting personal information to a site to
understanding that people they are talking to
may not actually be who they are. If the parents
know the dangers themselves, this sets an
example to the child to understand them as well.
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Teach
children the obvious identity rules.
Tell your children NOT to put
photos of themselves on the Internet or to give
out their names, addresses, phone numbers,
schools, or other personal information online.
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Install an
Internet filter or family safety software.
Family safety software is becoming extremely
advanced and an effective way to filter
dangerous content. Additionally, this software
usually comes with tools like time management,
remote monitoring and reporting, and keystroke
recognition, giving families greater peace of
mind and manageability.
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Know the
dangers associated with sites your children
frequent.
An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.
Whether it's MySpace, Facebook or another social
networking site, by knowing what people are
doing on your children's favorite sites that
could put them in harm's way, parents can
educate their children and show them the warning
signs of potentially dangerous situations.
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Teach
children what to do if they encounter
pornography on a home or public computer, such
as at a school or a library.
In a similar fashion to the fire warning of
"stop, drop and roll," you can teach children to
quickly turn off power to the computer monitor
and go to get an adult. This can prevent a child
from attempting to stop the situation by
clicking more buttons (and thereby spreading the
attack and being exposed to more porn).
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Manage your
children's time on the Internet.
Scheduling times when a child can be on the
Internet and the amount they can be online
ensures that you know when they are on the
Internet and how long. By not allowing them to
have free reign reduces their chances of being
exposed to inappropriate content.
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Set specific
Internet guidelines for your children to live by
and consistently enforce consequences, if they
are not being followed.
Giving your children specific guidelines to
follow will ensure they know where they stand
when it comes to how they use the Internet as
well as the consequences when they breach the
rules. If a parent enforces consequences
consistently, their children will be more likely
to follow the rules.
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Keep
computers out of children's bedrooms and in open
areas.
With PCs in the open, children will be less
inclined to view and access material that may
not be acceptable.
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Create a
relationship with your children that is
conducive to open communication.
Open communication and trust is extremely
valuable. By letting children know what is
expected from them and that their safety is a
top priority, they will feel that if something
happens --whether they are approached by a cyber
stranger or bully of receive an inappropriate
e-mail - they can approach a parent to resolve
the issue without feeling they are in trouble.
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Understand
Internet Privacy Policies as they apply to your
child.
According to the FTC (www.ftc.gov/bcp/conline/pubs/online/kidsprivacy.shtm),
parents should be aware of the following as it
pertains to protecting their childrens' privacy
on the web:
What Website
Operators Must Do:
Post
their privacy policy.
Websites directed to children or that knowingly
collect information from kids under 13 must post
a notice of their information collection
practices that includes:
- types of
personal information they collect from
kids-for example, name, home address, email
address or hobbies.
- how the site
will use the information-for example, to
market to the child who supplied the
information, to notify contest winners or to
make the information available through a
child's participation in a chat room.
- whether
personal information is forwarded to
advertisers or other third parties.
- a contact at
the site.
Get
parental consent.
In many cases, a site must obtain parental
consent before collecting, using or disclosing
personal information about a child.
Consent is not
required when a site is collecting an email
address to:
- respond to a
one-time request from the child.
- provide
notice to the parent.
- ensure the
safety of the child or the site.
- send a
newsletter or other information on a regular
basis as long as the site notifies a parent
and gives them a chance to say no to the
arrangement.
What Parents
Should Do:
Look for
a privacy policy on any website directed to
children.
The policy must be available through a link on
the website's homepage and at each area where
personal information is collected from kids.
Websites for general audiences that have a
children's section must post the notice on the
homepages of the section for kids.
Read the policy
closely to learn the kinds of personal
information being collected, how it will be
used, and whether it will be passed on to third
parties. If you find a website that doesn't post
basic protections for children's personal
information, ask for details about their
information collection practices.
Decide
whether to give consent.
Giving consent authorizes the website to collect
personal information from your child. You can
give consent and still say no to having your
child's information passed along to a third
party.
Your consent
isn't necessary if the website is collecting
your child's email address simply to respond to
a one-time request for information.
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